I usually focus on fashion but being that I’m a well rounded chic I can entertain on many subjects. Theres one in particular lately that has been ruffling my feathers & its the way we as people think in the modern world. I’m getting older which means wiser, more focused, & mature! When you become these things your way of thinking changes and you ponder on important things. This topic I speak of is unionship, teamwork, and becoming one with your partner. There are so many women who are single who are basically left out like raw meat to roam the world for a man.
Women are not suppose to be single. They either become successful & tell themselves they don’t need one or they haven’t had much luck getting that dream husband because hes either married with kids already, gay, his lifestyle is dangerous, he’s looking for his wife in the strip club,.,or he;s NONE of these things!! This is a stereotype of a certain man! I don’t have too much knowledge on dating. I’ve had a Man for years and I wonder whyyy,.,something to really ask myself in a world where so many women are complaining about the lack of the male species.
So my response is it all starts at home. I grew up with both parents. My mother however was single until I was about 8 and my father moved to California when I was almost 2 to raise his family with another woman. My mother was so strong, so dedicated to me with love that I never even felt a void of my father. I started flying to visit him when I was 4 all alone from Atlanta to California every summer spending time with Dad and my siblings. I became well traveled and well rounded due to change of environment at an early age. I went from saying “shawty” during the school year to “hecka & hella” in the summer. A change of dialog is necessary. My mother taught me wisdom, southern hospitality, independence, love, which gave me strength I needed to be confident in life. Dad taught intelligence, how to properly prepare yourself for life with having goals set, dreams to chase, & memories to make with your family.
I worte an essay when I applied to college. Florida A&M to be exact (just one of the 3 colleges I attended,.,.told you I was well rounded ) and the topic could have been about anything and I decided to write mine on how living with my mother and visiting my Dad was actually better than having them both. It gave me an opportunity to have more friends, more experiences and to be more diverse. I learned how to be around different cultures, cherish different foods, and travel to different places. It was an advantage. Only an outgoing child like myself would not complain and ask “why aren’t you & dad not together Mom” because truthfully I was excited that they weren’t!
I grew up enjoying my life. Things could have ofcourse been easier for me financially but unless your coming from the “Trump Family” most children can make that statement! This goes back to the subject at hand. The way your life turns out is the way your life was taught. Success should NEVER change your pespective of life. It should only enhance it! A woman should not believe that because she can take care of herself that she does not need a male companion to endure life with because were all here to be fruitful, to reproduce, and share the knowledge of the world through our children and children are not suppose to be raised alone! Men cannot think because they have money or a certain lifestyle that they have to be subjective to sleeping with many women when thats only to overshadow that they realy dont have that ONE!
Its okay to have a modern perspective way of living. Yes use your wifi on the plane, take your underwater camera with you to St. Thomas, don’t wear white if you don’t want to when you get married or have your bridesmaids in the exact same dress, or Skype when your boo goes out of town, or use GPS instead of a Map but do understand that LoVe is LoVE and FAMILY comes first! Wether its After Death of Before Christ (AD,BC) that will never change so hopefully Im around in 2050 to apply my knowledge to my grand children because this careless cycle has to end!